Men are from Mars and women from Venus

I totally agree. Whether they are from Mars and Venus, I am not sure of, but they are defenitely from two totally different planets! And I believe that they arent made for each other (not emotionally atleast), which other two kinds of a species could be more incompatible?

Everyone talks about how difficult it is to understand women (and I am not going to comment on how simple or complicated women are), I think its equally difficult to understand men. I just dont get the way they think..the way they make the same mistakes (in different forms) again, the way they just cant remember some of the smaller things in life (especially what women have told them), the way they'll never accept how jealous they are or how badly they need us (well, by 'us', I am referring to me and the whole of womankind)!

And they'll never ever tell another girl they get in contact with about their girlfriends! I dont know if its about keeping their options open or about just wanting to make them stay interested or something else that is out of my understanding.

And why they wouldnt tell even the guys just beats me!!

Sometimes, it just gets on my nerves when certain people dont inform all the other girls they know of my existence or importance in their lives! Well, its not like I should be known to everyone, its just for the sake of precaution! And basically to tell the girls "Back off, he's taken"!! Not that many of the girls would stop trying because of this reason. Some of them go out of their way being nice and sweet. And some others will take them along to buy things or nearly demand a drop and basically think that they have a right over them!

The other day, when my friend asked me if I'd like to join a conference chat with two other friends (girls) of his, I wasnt too sure. But then, I thought this was the time I could do what my friend wasnt doing, of letting one of the girls know! Well, if she got it and pretended like it didnt bother her or she was really dumb, I dont know, but I must say it was a dissapointment because she never reacted.

And when you ask them whats the big deal in telling others, thats it, they get mad at you! "you will never understand will you"....I really dont remember them explaining it ever to me earlier! And now, they arent ready to because they think I should know and understand!

Men are so difficult!! And they talk about women! Women would love to announce to the world about having found prince charming (if the world excludes their parents)! And ya I know I said I wont talk about this, but women arent after all so complicated. Its just that they think too much! Now, thats not bad, is it?

Just writing...

Ok! I am on a blogging spree...

When I started this blog, someone said that it wont be easy, and then I was angry. But now I realize that he is right. Its not easy to maintain an active one and keep updating. But that also has inspired me to do so, wont be able to take it if he turns out to be right (eventually, because, in between, I had stopped updating)!

So, if I dont post anything for.. lets say a month, then I'll agree with him!

Life has become sort of monotonous right now and I am craving for some adventure, some kind of excitement! Finally, when the boredom of life gets to me, I'll take a break and end up doing something crazy! Talking about craziness, I got to talk to someone last night and Oh man! she is crazy!! Maybe because she is in love, but neverthless she is totally crazy! And she has this plan of embarassing her boyfriend so that he thinks of her the whole day, of which she wanted me to be a part of and if I did assist her in this, I would have to share a part of the embarassment! So I refused to do it for her, which didnt bog her down, she has deviced another way to get it done! God save him!

Actually I can kind of relate to her (no....I am not as crazy as her), because even I sit and plan surprises on people and I like doing it. It makes them happy and in turn makes me happy. Well, someone always says to me that things should never be planned as it leads to more dissapointments when it flops. But, I think he says this only because he doesnt bother planning! And he strongly argues about it because once or twice, things have worked out amazingly well between us when we havent planned (or rather when he hasnt let me plan)! Anyway, guess I'll keep planning and he'll stick to his way, but ultimately as long as things work out, I am happy!

Just not meant to be

Sometimes it feels like all the forces of nature join hands and work against you!

I try so hard to spend some time with people I really care for and it just doesnt work out! Well, this has happened a lot of times, but when it really upset me was when one of my close friends had come down to Bangalore for a very short period and I couldnt meet him. Every single day during the last week of his stay, I tried to leave early from office, but NO...I wasnt meant to spend time with him! Had a slight tiff with a senior in office, upset myself, probably upset my friend also and basically sulked around. And by the end of the week, I was so frustrated, I was near to tears! And finally did meet him before he left...but spent very less time with him.

The week after he left was cool, no deadlines, no work, no botheration from seniors, left every single day at six and one of the days, left early too! See..what I mean?

And now....this is happening again!! One of my friends is leaving to U.S on Thursday and I am not able to leave office early to meet her! And I am sure, next week, I will be free and will be able to leave whenever!

Ya! The forces working again...