Men are from Mars and women from Venus
I totally agree. Whether they are from Mars and Venus, I am not sure of, but they are defenitely from two totally different planets! And I believe that they arent made for each other (not emotionally atleast), which other two kinds of a species could be more incompatible?
Everyone talks about how difficult it is to understand women (and I am not going to comment on how simple or complicated women are), I think its equally difficult to understand men. I just dont get the way they think..the way they make the same mistakes (in different forms) again, the way they just cant remember some of the smaller things in life (especially what women have told them), the way they'll never accept how jealous they are or how badly they need us (well, by 'us', I am referring to me and the whole of womankind)!
And they'll never ever tell another girl they get in contact with about their girlfriends! I dont know if its about keeping their options open or about just wanting to make them stay interested or something else that is out of my understanding.
And why they wouldnt tell even the guys just beats me!!
Sometimes, it just gets on my nerves when certain people dont inform all the other girls they know of my existence or importance in their lives! Well, its not like I should be known to everyone, its just for the sake of precaution! And basically to tell the girls "Back off, he's taken"!! Not that many of the girls would stop trying because of this reason. Some of them go out of their way being nice and sweet. And some others will take them along to buy things or nearly demand a drop and basically think that they have a right over them!
The other day, when my friend asked me if I'd like to join a conference chat with two other friends (girls) of his, I wasnt too sure. But then, I thought this was the time I could do what my friend wasnt doing, of letting one of the girls know! Well, if she got it and pretended like it didnt bother her or she was really dumb, I dont know, but I must say it was a dissapointment because she never reacted.
And when you ask them whats the big deal in telling others, thats it, they get mad at you! "you will never understand will you"....I really dont remember them explaining it ever to me earlier! And now, they arent ready to because they think I should know and understand!
Men are so difficult!! And they talk about women! Women would love to announce to the world about having found prince charming (if the world excludes their parents)! And ya I know I said I wont talk about this, but women arent after all so complicated. Its just that they think too much! Now, thats not bad, is it?
Everyone talks about how difficult it is to understand women (and I am not going to comment on how simple or complicated women are), I think its equally difficult to understand men. I just dont get the way they think..the way they make the same mistakes (in different forms) again, the way they just cant remember some of the smaller things in life (especially what women have told them), the way they'll never accept how jealous they are or how badly they need us (well, by 'us', I am referring to me and the whole of womankind)!
And they'll never ever tell another girl they get in contact with about their girlfriends! I dont know if its about keeping their options open or about just wanting to make them stay interested or something else that is out of my understanding.
And why they wouldnt tell even the guys just beats me!!
Sometimes, it just gets on my nerves when certain people dont inform all the other girls they know of my existence or importance in their lives! Well, its not like I should be known to everyone, its just for the sake of precaution! And basically to tell the girls "Back off, he's taken"!! Not that many of the girls would stop trying because of this reason. Some of them go out of their way being nice and sweet. And some others will take them along to buy things or nearly demand a drop and basically think that they have a right over them!
The other day, when my friend asked me if I'd like to join a conference chat with two other friends (girls) of his, I wasnt too sure. But then, I thought this was the time I could do what my friend wasnt doing, of letting one of the girls know! Well, if she got it and pretended like it didnt bother her or she was really dumb, I dont know, but I must say it was a dissapointment because she never reacted.
And when you ask them whats the big deal in telling others, thats it, they get mad at you! "you will never understand will you"....I really dont remember them explaining it ever to me earlier! And now, they arent ready to because they think I should know and understand!
Men are so difficult!! And they talk about women! Women would love to announce to the world about having found prince charming (if the world excludes their parents)! And ya I know I said I wont talk about this, but women arent after all so complicated. Its just that they think too much! Now, thats not bad, is it?
posted by Pooja Subramanya at
5:47 PM
4 Comments:
The same question came to my mind too... and when I asked, I only got another question in reply of my question, but no answer!
cya,
Aradhita
I'll try to answer this - though I'm not sure whether I can say it in the right way.
It's basically this...
MEN LIKE TO FLIRT!!
Yes - that's true! And that's not going to change no matter what you do or say :-D
See, if you tell a girl that you're already taken it spoils the fun. Y'know when both of you know that you're single and ready to mingle, there's this underlying sexual tenstion. That makes the whole deal more interesting and fun.
Nandz.
Hey, That was a funny piece. It always is when women write about men. ;)
:-)))
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