Happiness
Everyone can be happy if and only if we truly desire for it. This being my sole aim in life, I am going to aspire and perspire for only that. Happiness is just a mental state, its a state that is wilfully obtained and never gained by any event or possession. Its never going to come to me, I have to find it...in myself. And I am on a journey to find a few things that matter the most to me right now in my life.
What I am going to do to be happy -
-Shut out all the thoughts that cause me pain, no I dont have to always deal with it.
-Smile...smile from within...smile to greet every new day, smile because things will get better.
-Breakdown and cry if I must. I want to wash away the pain from my soul.
-Treat myself by doing atleast one thing that I love every single day-eating, painting, reading, sleeping,writing,cooking...whatever it may be. (I think I am doing all of them right now).
-Give more attention to people who truly care for me and let them into my life, I am going to care less about the people 'I' truly care for. The former is more beneficial.
-Let go. Let go of people, let go of hope and let go of expectations (expectations of apologies, explanations, change).
-Continue being sarcastic to the mean ones, it gives me pleasure.
-Hurt back the ones who hurt me, this gives me more pleasure.
I see myself treading the path of selfishness
If this path is the only way to happiness, so shall it be.
posted by Pooja Subramanya at
1:32 PM
14 Comments:
"Give more attention to people who truly care for me and let them into my life, I am going to care less about the people 'I' truly care for."
It's a jewel of a thought!! I was searching for something like this for ages! Thanks!!
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You sort of remind me of happy bunny (atleast your last couple of comments did) :).
Chanced upon your blog today !
Some of the posts are really thought provoking. Keep up the good work :)
Thanks for adding my blog link on your blog!!
Waiting for a post...
whatever u r going thru.......HUgs
good one pooja
thanks
roshan
lol
nice blog indeed!!
keep posting..
smiles,
vaasu
I'm afraid happiness could be a side effect. For example, you may be chasing money. But happiness might come your way unwittingly and worse u may not recognized it. I personally don't believe that happiness can exist without money. I'm a staunch believer in Maslow's hierarchy. Happiness to me is an intangible that comes either after the tangibles or as a result of the tangibles. To me happiness is more similar to social affiliations and self actualization than food or shelter. However, I see no point in missing out on happiness if it comes ur way ininvited! I feel happiness is a state of mind that comes when you have the time for it.
In reality I don't know much about happiness. I'm in the phase of chasing money. Chances are that I've passed up happiness. And I have an unpleasant feeling that happiness is like Halley's comet or worse like total solar eclipse. It's gonna take motherfuckin decades and centuries before it shows up, invited or otherwise!
Nice blog.. stumbled upon it today.. I have posted a questions version of similar thoughts in my blog today! Many of the pts here were like answers to them :)
And do follow them. I decide such things every now and then but never could sustain it.. Hope you can do it now on and me too sometime in lyfe :)
well...m rlly spellbound by ur thought process!!u r SOME ARTIST with such indepth ANALYSIS no wonder in that...will b CCRAVING for more...
> I see myself treading the path of
> selfishness If this path is the only way
> to happiness, so shall it be.
Heh., and did you get it?
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